4 Ways to Make Your Marriage Last With Neuroscience

The WIRED guide to a long and happy marriage. It's really not that hard, people.
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The secret is in working the brain chemistry behind love, says the Kinsey Institute’s Helen Fisher.

Go slow, Romeo
Romance triggers the same mind-deranging dopamine circuitry as cocaine. No Vegas weddings.

Be surprising
That love high thrives on novelty: Bring flowers not on Valentine’s Day.

No dalliance
Sex sparks a chain reaction in your brain that leads to attachment. That’s nature’s recipe for families. Be strong. Semper fi.

Hold hands
A simple touch showers your partner’s brain with oxytocin, letting them know all is right in your (shared) world.