GeekMom Mourns the Passing of Nora Ephron

Filmmaker and writer Nora Ephron would probably not have considered herself a GeekMom. But for this GeekMom, she was someone special. Ephron, who was 71, died tonight in New York of complications of leukemia.
Nora Ephron
“Secret to life, marry an Italian.” Nora Ephron and her husband, author Nicholas Pileggi in 2010. Image: David Shankbone/Wikimedia Commons

Filmmaker and writer Nora Ephron would probably not have considered herself a GeekMom. But for this GeekMom, she was someone special:

  • Ephron, who wrote for New York and Ms. magazines, was one of the first journalists whose byline I learned to look for as a budding teenage newshound.
  • She was married for a time to Watergate reporter Carl Bernstein, another of my heroes (and turned that into a movie, too).
  • Though her films sometimes missed the mark (see above), she wrote one of the most memorable love scenes ever committed to celluloid – and it took place at a deli, between Meg Ryan and a sandwich.
  • She made blogging look important in a movie about TV chef Julia Child (herself a geeky icon to some).
  • She wrote two hilarious memoirs about New York City and growing older that simultaneously made me nostalgic for the city I once inhabited, and hopeful about the stage of life I am approaching.
  • And she was smart, funny, female and mainstream successful – a combination not often seen, even today.

Ephron, who was 71, died tonight in New York of complications of leukemia. RIP, Ms Ephron – GeekMoms everywhere will miss you.