When Words Fail, So Do We

Violet Blue brings to light the insidious ways in which internet advertising influences and reinforces sex-negative culture in yesterday’s Open Source Sex column. Her example is a porn site whose AdWords requests for queer-friendly terms have been denied by Google as offensive, even though Google would permit the site to use terms that most transgendered […]

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Violet Blue brings to light the insidious ways in which internet advertising influences and reinforces sex-negative culture in yesterday's Open Source Sex column. Her example is a porn site whose AdWords requests for queer-friendly terms have been denied by Google as offensive, even though Google would permit the site to use terms that most transgendered people consider derogatory. She writes:

Bay Area transgender, sex-positive
queer-porn site Red Handed Porn (redhandedporn.com NSFW) signed up as aclient of the AdWords service, only to discover that findingAdWords-approved words to describe their brand (and potential clients'
brand identity) meant choosing terminology deeply offensive to mosttransgender individuals At the same time, they found that terms chosenas respectful self-labels by the trans culture were rejected by AdWordsas -- shockingly -- "teen porn concepts." What's more, Red Handed foundthat even the term "dyke" is considered a four-letter word by theservice, while terms that deeply offend trans women are accepted.

You can dismiss it as trivial because it's "just ads," but advertising has huge influence in our culture. I remember the dandruff shampoo commercials from my youth putting out the message that if you had white flakes on your black shirt, you had a shameful problem (that the product could solve, of course). I happen to have very dry skin, including on my scalp; I get white flakes on my black shirts sometimes if I scratch my head hard. And even though I think it's stupid, I feel somewhat embarrassed by that. I can directly trace that silly reaction back to those ads, because no one else ever mentioned such a thing, and not once has anyone ever comment on it (if they even noticed; or maybe they did notice, and didn't comment because it's a huge horrible shameful problem and they don't want to embarrass me).

That Google seems to have decided that "she-male" is ok but "transboi" is not also says something about the power of porn marketing in the mainstream. Porn marketers use "she-male" for a very specific purpose -- to sell porn to straight guys without triggering their homophobia -- that has nothing to do with actual transgendered people (or helping men overcome their homophobia, either).

I betcha the boys in charge at Google have heard "she-male" since they sneaked their first porn, but "the words that many transfolk use to identify themselves: 'transboi,' 'trannyboy,' 'transgrrrl,' etc." are unfamiliar and strange to them.

Google didn't respond to Violet's requests for comment in time for the column, but they did respond in time for a follow-up blog post.